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Tuesday, March 24, 2009

To be independent

I have received a lot of advise, but the best one among I have had is

given by my father. He told me to be an independent girl.


I am not an independent person. When I do something, I always want

to rely on someone else, not really rely, just want to have a mate. I was

afraid of doing a thing just by myself. One day, my father talked with

me seriousely. He taught me that no one can always stay with me, and

if I am always like that, that will make him disappointed and so on...


After that, he did a set of things to make me independent, such as kick

me off from home, study in another city just by myself and so on, but

not everything worked. As a result, one day he suddenly told me to

study abroad. I am sure that learning how to be independent must be

one of the most important reasons why he sent me here.


Now I am learning how to be independent. Scarlett, who is the heroine

in "Gone with the wind", is my idol right now. To be an adult is my

short-term goal ... ...

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3 comments:

KACHINA'S BLOG said...

I have the same situation with you. I always do somthing or go somewhere with my friends. when I came here, everything change in different wsy. I do or go somewhere alone, not with partner. At the first time, I felt so lonely. gradually,I feel OK with this change

Ryoko said...

You have a nice father! He loves you so much since he kicked you off. This is a deep story!

we have to study hard for us and our parents!

Sunny said...

You're already physically independent because you are living separated from your parents. The remaining thing is that you should be mentally independent. However, I know that it's not easy. Although I am older than you, I am still mentally dependent on my parents. We need more time...