I have received a lot of advise, but the best one among I have had is
given by my father. He told me to be an independent girl.
I am not an independent person. When I do something, I always want
to rely on someone else, not really rely, just want to have a mate. I was
afraid of doing a thing just by myself. One day, my father talked with
me seriousely. He taught me that no one can always stay with me, and
if I am always like that, that will make him disappointed and so on...
After that, he did a set of things to make me independent, such as kick
me off from home, study in another city just by myself and so on, but
not everything worked. As a result, one day he suddenly told me to
study abroad. I am sure that learning how to be independent must be
one of the most important reasons why he sent me here.
Now I am learning how to be independent. Scarlett, who is the heroine
in "Gone with the wind", is my idol right now. To be an adult is my
short-term goal ... ...
Read: Mai and Kachina
Red Corn-like Plant
2 years ago

3 comments:
I have the same situation with you. I always do somthing or go somewhere with my friends. when I came here, everything change in different wsy. I do or go somewhere alone, not with partner. At the first time, I felt so lonely. gradually,I feel OK with this change
You have a nice father! He loves you so much since he kicked you off. This is a deep story!
we have to study hard for us and our parents!
You're already physically independent because you are living separated from your parents. The remaining thing is that you should be mentally independent. However, I know that it's not easy. Although I am older than you, I am still mentally dependent on my parents. We need more time...
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